Go to school and get a good job that's how you build a life isn't it? Then why is it after spending so much energy, money and time building this life are we left feeling unfulfilled. People ask, have you tried traveling to find yourself? What about getting married? Kids? What about a new job? No job? If happiness is only found when we sell our souls in exchange for some monetary value and three weeks vacation then why not die now. If you don't think pouring your creativity and engagement into someone else's dream will kill you, then what will?